Do you even trust a person after meeting them once?Or does it take more than one meeting to know that the person you've met online is the same person in reality?Does it happen quickly and easily, or does it take time?Do you think it's different if you meet them in forums as opposed to just contact by email? I don't think that trust is something that you can establish in a few weeks of emailing or IMing with someone, especially if you haven't been able to move that to talking on the phone, or even meeting in person.GREEN LIGHT Trust a match who: – seems open and honest on their profile.– consistently answers messages fully and remembers things you have told them previously. – is willing to tell you more about things on their profile when asked.Some forums can only be seen by registered members.
But if that’s really the case, it won't be because of their fake flattery and hyperbole.– wants to meet in a public place, this is important for both your safety.– is respectful, polite and considerate, letting you take your time until you are ready to meet up. Every time you check your email, are you hoping for a message from that guy you met online? How can you tell if your online match is really for you?" We associate online dating with effort — something you don't associate a quality relationship with.